Being shy means feeling afraid when you're around other people. Some children were1shy. Some become very shy later because of their life experiences. 2 , everybody gets a little shy sometimes. It's just3 they feel shy.
Most people have red faces and talk in 4 sentences when they are shy. But some become 5shy that they won't go to a restaurant because they are too nervous to6 and pay for their food. Some are afraid of meeting7people, so they seldom go outside. This kind of shyness can be8 for a person.
If shyness doesn't stop you 9doing something you want to do, being shy won't be a big 10. Some experts (专家) say shy people are good at 11because they think more and12 less. But remember not to13good opportunities (机会) pass you by just because of it. If you have to14a song at a birthday party or give some performances in front of others, just do it. There's15to be afraid of.
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Sometimes I feel lonely, Like I'm by myself with no one here. When I'm that way, I call a friend. My lonely mood soon disappears (消失). Sometimes I feel excited, Like I have some news to share! My friends open their ears to me. They always listen, talk, and ________. Sometimes I feel so sad, Like my world is cold and darkest blue. At those time my friends let me know , They're with me, standing strong and true. Sometimes I feel mixed up, Like I just don't know how I should feel. My friends then help me figure out, What's right and wrong; what's false and real! |
Shyness can be an unhappy feeling. But you're not alone to be shy. Scientists say that more than 40 percent of teenagers and adults consider themselves shy. Shyness is feeling a little nervous or as if you want to hide when you're around other people or in a new situation.
▲ Scientists say such things as genetics(遗传基因), life experiences, and environment can be the cause. For example, in some families, everybody seems to be shy.
What will happen if you are shy? Well, being shy may cause you to avoid or miss opportunities you would have enjoyed.
How do people overcome(克服）shyness? This is what Gilbert tells us. "When I started off trying to get over being shy, I decided to do little steps at a time, including practising smiling and saying hi to people. And it worked for me. "
But most people can't get over shyness overnight. Overcoming shyness takes time and needs practice.
Here are some tips given by scientists.
Think of what to talk about before you leave home. Prepare things to talk about before you're in asocial situation. For example, if you know your classmates are interested in an upcoming event, learn about it so you can join in the conversations.
Let people know you're shy. If you're shy. Just show it. Instead of letting people guess, tell them the truth. Tell them you are shy and feel nervous but enjoy talking with them.
Make things easy for the other person. Remember, you're not the only shy person around. If you want to do something, just do it. It might help others feel good. For example, say hello or smile.
Pick one social skill to practise at a time. Starts imply. For example, smile or be the first person to say hi. Choose suitable skills to practise for a day, a week, a month, or even a year.
How can you understand others without speaking? Why do you feel good when your teacher gives you a smile? People say things not just with words, but also with facial expressions (面部表情). What are some common facial expressions? Why are they important for communication? Read onto find out more. Facial expressions are one or more movements on a person's face. Scientists say that humans have 80muscles(肌肉)on their faces. These expressions can be put into six main categories (类别). For example, when people think a certain food tastes disgusting(令人不快的), they usually make a funny face. When people are surprised, they often raise their eyebrows and open their eyes wide.
If people can read facial expressions right, they may be better at knowing other people's feelings. That can help people make more friends.
For example, it is not a good idea to stare at others for a long time. They may think you are rude.
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A. However, sometimes people have to be careful when reading others' facial expressions. B. These muscles can make more than 7, 000 different facial expressions. C. They are happiness, sadness, anger, surprise, fear and disgust (厌恶). D. The answer is simple. E. Facial expressions are important for communicating. |
It's dinnertime again. The air is full of the tasty severywhere in town, Every time, it makes me think of my mum and think of the days that I spent in my home town. Having stayed in America for five years, I really miss（想念）her. Mum is good at cooking. She cooks all kinds of delicious things: sweet c, fruit p, birthday cakes, even the fruit j! She is really a kind and friendly woman. When the food is d, she always asks me to send some to our neighbours' children. After all, most of them have a sweet t! When I was a little child, she also made big birthday cakes for my birthday parties and asked all my friends to come to enjoy. The lchildren, the tasty cakes, and the beautiful son our faces always made her happy! My mum taught me to s, to love. Now, having not tried Mum's dinner for such a long time, I really want to fly back to China and sas much time as I can with my dear mum!
We are happy at times, but sometimes we're sad or angry. Showing your (feel) is important. It is a mistake not (talk) with anyone while you're feeling sad, worried or nervous. If you keep bad feelings inside, they can even make you ill.
But if you talk with someone, . Your mum or dad, you'll usually begin to feel (well) than before. Now you're not all alone with your problems or worries. However, it doesn't mean your problems and (worry) will disappear magically (神奇地). But, at least, someone else (understand) what's the matter with you and can help you find ways of (solve) your problems.
Your mum and dad want to know it you have problems. They love you they want to know what's happening in your life. But if you don't want to talk with them, should you do? Find a believable (可信任的) teacher at school or a relative. Maybe that person can help you deal with your problems. Then you'll feel happy as before.
A. The tea tastes strong. B. The strawberry jam tastes sweet. C. I'm afraid it tastes a little salty, Mum. D. The vegetables look fresh. E. It smells delicious. F. Everything looks nice. G. You look very smart. |
A: Mum, I'm hungry. What are you cooking?
B: Here's some pizza.
A: I can't wait to eat it.
B: Wait a minute. Drink some soup first.
A:
B: Really? You may put some water in it.
A: I don't like it.
B: It's for your father. He likes drinking strong tea.
A: Anything else?
B: Vegetables are good for your health. I'll cook some.
A: Thank you, Mum. I have a sweet tooth!
要点如下：
1）他40岁，瘦高个，留着金色的短发，有一个幸福的家庭；
2）性格外向，与学生相处得很好；
3）他的课堂很有趣，课后常帮我们学英语；
4）不抽烟，非常喜欢运动，擅长下国际象棋；
5）写一至两点其他同学对他的看法。
参考词汇: outgoing adj.外向的；smoke v.吸烟；chess n.国际象棋
Dear Tom,
How are you recently? Now I'll tell you something about my English teacher Mr. Lee.
I'm looking forward to your reply.
Yours,
Li Ming
