Do you want to be successful in everything you do? If so, then 1? Here is an example.
There was a farmer who 2 corn（玉米) all his life. Each year he took his corn to the market. Then each time his corn was chosen as the 3 and won the first prize.
One year a newspaper reporter interviewed him and learned something 4 about how he grew it. The farmer 5 his seed (做种子的) corn to his neighbours.
"How can you share your best seed corn with your neighbours?" the reporter asked. "You know they are taking part in the 6 with you each year. "
"Why, sir," said the farmer, "didn't you know? The 7 picks up pollen (花粉) from the corn and moves it quickly from field to field. If my neighbours grow 8 corn, cross-pollination (异花传粉) will affect the quality of my corn. So if I want to grow good corn, I must 9 my neighbours to grow good corn. "
The farmer knows much about the connection of life. His corn cannot improve 10 his neighbours' corn improves.
As a great man says, "We make a living by what we 11; we make a life by what we give." We can't 12 without food, clothes, and many other things. However, a meaningful life is not decided by how much we can get, 13 by how much we can give others. Giving, instead of taking, makes us 14 from other animals. So those who choose to live well must help others to live well and those who choose to be happy must help others to find 15 in their life.
Three travelers, Allan, Carl and Paul were sitting on the chairs in a train station. They were waiting for a train that was late.
To pass the time, they began talking to each other.
At first, they talked about the weather and their work. Then Paul said, “Tell me-what would you most like to do if your doctor tells you that you have only three months to live?"
The other two men thought about this for a while, then Carl spoke.
"Well," he said, "if I have only three months to live, I'll take all my money out of the bank and go to foreign countries for holidays with my best friend, Erik. I'd like to travel to the places in the world as many as possible. And I'll stay at the best hotels and then eat the best food. I think I'll have a wonderful time."
"That's very interesting." Paul said. With these words, he turned to the other man, saying, "And what about you?"
"I'll tell you a secret," Allan said. "I always want to be a racing driver. So if I have only three months to live, the first thing I'd like to do is to sell my house. With the money I'll buy the fastest car in the world. Maybe I can enter all the big motor races. " Then he laughed, "I might even end up with (以......而告终) a world champion."
"Now it's your turn," Allan went on. "If your doctor tells you the bad news, what would you most like to do?"
"Oh," said Paul with a smile. "I'll go and see another doctor."
Is there anyone you hate? Well, maybe you don't really hate him. But you get really angry every time you think of him. If you don't let this anger go, it can turn into bitterness (痛苦).
Bitterness appears when we can't forgive someone who has hurt us or made us angry. Someone might say or do something that hurts us. But instead of controlling the anger, we keep it deep inside. Before long, a bitter feeling begins to grow. We may think we're hurting that person by criticizing (指责) him or her often, but we're really only hurting ourselves.
Bitterness can not only lead to serious health problems such as heart disease, but also hurt our relationships with friends and family members. No one enjoys being around an angry person for very long.
If you see bitterness in your life, here are some ways to deal with it.
※Accept it
Instead of trying to deny your anger, make it clear to yourself and accept it. See your anger for what it is and quickly deal with it.
※Stop making excuses for it
You may feel you have a right to be angry. You may think you're right and the other person is wrong. You may even secretly enjoy making the other person look bad. But in the end, bitterness hurts you much more than the other person. The bitterness will hold you back, and the other person will go on with his or her life.
※Forgive and forget it
You probably can't completely put the anger out of your mind. But you can decide to forgive the other person. Forget it and move on. You'll enjoy better health and peace of mind.
A few days ago, I ran into（撞上）a stranger as he passed by. I said sorry to him, and he said, "Excuse me too, I wasn't even watching for you.” We were very polite, this stranger and I. Then we went on our way after saying goodbye.
Later in the kitchen at home, as I cooked our meal, my daughter Betty walked up to me, very quietly. When I turned around (转身), I nearly knocked her down "Get out of the way!" I shouted angrily. She ran away, crying.
That night, when I lay in bed, my husband said to me, “You were so rude to Betty. Go and look around on the kitchen floor, and you'll find some flowers there. Betty brought those for you. She picked them herself-pink, yellow, and your favourite blue.''
When I heard this, I thought deeply: While meeting with a stranger, I was calm and polite; but with my daughter, I was not patient. I felt sad and tears began to fall.
I quietly went to Betty's bed, "Wake up, my dear," I said. "Are these the flowers you picked for me?" She smiled, “I found them by the tree. I knew you'd like them, especially the blue.” I said, ‘‘I am so sorry that I treated (对待) you that way today." And she whispered（悄声地说）, “Mommy, that's okay- I still love you anyway.'' I kissed her and said, “I love you too and I do love the flowers.”
That day Betty gave me a lesson on how to get along with each other in the family. I spent much time on work before and didn't realize how important family life was. I decided to do better in the future.
姓名 | 刘宏 |
星座 | Gemini |
最喜欢的颜色 | 蓝色、黄色 |
存在问题 | 1. 父母要求严格, 几乎不给时间玩; 2. 迷恋动漫真人秀( cosplay), 放学后会花很多时间在这上面; 3. 有时不能按时交作业, 学习越来越糟; 4. 父母、老师要求你放弃你唯一的爱好, 你为此苦恼。 |
目前需求 | 希望得到建议 |
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