Westerners think that the education ways in many Chinese families are hard to understand. Here are some examples.
Many children in China are looked after by their grandfathers and grandmothers because their parents are busy. But children need to stay and communicate with their parents.
Parents pay no attention to the rights of children. Parents seldom knock at the door before they go into the room of their children. They shouldn't move their children's things before they agree. Parents should communicate with children and respect the rights and decisions of them. Children who are not respected also do not know how to respect others.
Parents often compare their children with others. Most Chinese parents want their children to be successful, because it can save the parents' face. Parents often say "You see somebody else is studying hard, what good grades they have, and what prizes they get". This is the worst thing. It will only bring the child much harm and pain.
Many children are made to do what their parents expect, though they do not like it. For example, parents ask their children to learn to play the piano or go abroad. It should be decided by children themselves.
The more hard-working, the better. Many parents think school performance is everything. In fact, the integrated(综合)ability is so important that it will affect children all their lives.
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