You have tried too hard but you don't succeed; you've made all your efforts but you don't get the results you want. What should you do? Give up and turn over a new page. Drop it like it's hot, and run in the opposite direction as fast as you can.
Do you feel surprised? What is wrong with giving up? Oh yes, we all have been trained and asked to work hard to achieve our dreams, and that is a good thing. The problem comes out when all these inspirational quotes (励志名言) start confusing us.
These messages tell people not to give up, but they don't tell you that it should only apply to (适用于) your true dreams. They tell people to "try and try again" until they succeed, but that amount of effort should only be put toward what people really want in life and they should never give up no matter what life goals they have. The rest is all just there to confuse you, distract (使分心) you, give you a headache and sadness, so don't let it happen.
If you are really not good at something, give it up and try to do something you like. Once you do something you like, you won't feel bored and also won't give it up. You know clearly what you want even the road to success is hard. So you need to know what you're good at. To find your talent, you need to observe (观察) the things around you and write down the things you're interested in on your notebook. Then you can search them on the Internet, and know more about them. Asking your parents or friends for help is also a good idea because they can see something you can't. They can help you know yourself clearly.
Try to discover your talent, your ability and your skills. Find out what you are good at, what makes you happy and then work on it. If you do, no one would have to tell you or inspire you not to give up because when you love something, you keep trying until you get it right and the enthusiasm flows from within. Don't worry about what people will say or think. It's your life, so you have to love it and be your own boss.
