The Power of a Note
On my first job as sports editor for the Montpelier(Ohio) Leader Enterprise, I didn't get a lot of fan mail, 1a letter that was dropped on my desk one morning seemed 2 to me.
When I opened it, I read: “A nice piece of writing on the Tigers. Please3 the good work.” It was 4 by Don Wolfe, the sports editor. Because I was a teenager (being paid for 15 cents a column inch ), his words couldn't have been more 5 . I kept the letter in my desk drawer 6 it got rag-eared. Whenever I 7whether I had the ability to be a writer, I would reread Don's note and feel 8 again.
Later, when I got to know him, I learned that Don made a 9 of writing a quick, encouraging word to people in10 . “When I made others feel good about 11 ,” he told me, “I feel good too.”
Not 12 , he had a body of friends as big as nearby Lake Erie. When he died last year at 75, the paper was 13 with calls and letters from people who had been recipients of his 14 words.
15 the years, I've tried to copy the example of Don and other friends16 care enough to write uplifting comments, because I think they are on to something important. In a world too often cold and unresponsive, such 17 bring warmth and reassurance. We all need a push from time to time, and a few lines of 18 have been known to turn around a day, even a life.
Be 19 with your praise. Superlatives like “greatest” “smartest” “prettiest” make us all feel good. Even if your praise is a little ahead of reality, remember that expectations are often the20 of dreams fulfilled.
