When something goes wrong, it can be very satisfying to say, "Well, it's so-and-so's mistake. "or "I know I'm late, but it's not my fault; the car broke down. It is probably not your mistake, but once you form the habit of blaming(指责)somebody or something else for a bad situation, you are a loser. You have no power and could do nothing that helps change the situation. However, you can have great power over what happens to you if you stop focusing on whom to blame and start focusing on how to remedy(补致)the situation. This is the winner's key to Success.
Winners are great at solving problems. For example, if you were late because your car broke down, maybe you need to have your car examined more regularly （按部就班地）. Or, you might start to carry along with you the useful phone numbers, so you could call for help when in need. For another example, if your colleague(同事)causes you problems on the job for being short of responsibility (责任) or ability, find ways of dealing with his irresponsibility or inability rather an just blame the person. Ask to work with a different person, or don't depend on the person. You should accept that the person is not dependable and find creative ways to work successfully. This is what being a winner is all about -creatively using your skills and talents so that you are successful no matter what happens.
Winners don't have fewer problems in their lives; they have just as many difficult situations to face as anybody else. They are just better at seeing those problems as challenges and chances to develop their own talents. So, stop focusing on "whose mistake it is. "Once you are confident about your power over bad situations, problems are just stepping stones for success.
