(Make) new friends means putting yourself out on a limb(孤立无援) and asking others not only to accept you, but to like you and want to be around you as well. (unfortunate), there is no magical solution to this part of process, so if you want to make friends, take a deep breath and jump right in.
first step to making friends is figuring out what is holding you back. A lot of times people are interested in making new friends don't know why they don't have them already. They can't see that . (they) own working against them.
Once you can identify what is keeping you from making new friends, you need to work through these concerns. This can be painful because you will need to put yourself outside of your comfort zones to see any real (difference) .
The next step is to shine in these social setting so that others will leave with a positive (impress). If you find social situations hard, just rely a few simple rules.
When you feel (confidence) that you've made some great new friends, get out there and celebrate it with them! No matter what you decide (do), the important thing is to celebrate your new friends and hopefully continue cultivating (培养) more.
