Don't be shy!
If you think you are too shy and want to be a little outgoing, try the following rules. You can make it.
. Just let people know that you are a shy kid. When they know that, they will understand you better. This also helps you feel more at home when talking with others.
. People will think you are friendly and easy to talk to. Remember that most of us would like to talk to friendly people and we will stay away from an angry-looking face.
. If you find it hard to do, say something nice about people around you. Think about how great you feel when someone says something nice to you. Doesn't it make you want to keep talking to those people?
. Think more about ways to enjoy the party or the game. Don't worry about your looks or care if people like you.
. Each time after you say "Hi" or smile at someone for the first time, say to yourself "You did it! "or it could be something bigger, like buying yourself an ice-cream
Keep trying and one day you won't be shy any more when you talk to others.
A. Try to smile more. B. Turn your attention to somewhere else. C. Think more about yourself D. Reward(奖励) yourself E. Tell people you are shy. F. Talk to others first |