In life, everyone wants to have friends who he or she can trust forever. It is scary because in most cases you have to get out of your comfort zone and put yourself out there.
However, once the strangeness becomes a thought of the past, it becomes much easier to talk to potential new friends. Get over the shyness of meeting new people and be yourself. Start out with a simple conversation like "Hello, I like your coat" or a discussion about the weather. Those icebreakers will give you the time to feel comfortable and help you open the floor for future conversations.
It can be attending a book club or maybe just enjoying a cup of coffee. Making new friendships means learning about someone and sharing stories about each other's life. Think of your new friendship as a plant. In order to grow, you have to water it and provide it with sunlight. If you want to make new friends, you have to be willing to make the effort. Keep in mind that some people are more outing than others and it's okay to be reserved(矜持). But it's necessary to make use of opportunities to develop your newlyfound friendship.
One thing to be cautious about, when you meet new people, is to be always genuine(真诚的). If you don't like fishing or running, then don't pretend that you do just so someone will be friends with you. Find people that share common interests and goals and build your friendship. Then you'll find it's much easier to keep friendships.
A. Friendships are quite similar.
B. Friendships are great support systems.
C. In most cases, you are your biggest road block.
D. Be true to yourself and don't be someone that you are not.
E. However, making new friends is much easier said than done.
F. Building new friendships means spending quality time together.
G. Then find a common ground and build your friendship around that.
