Some people think only school children do not agree with their parents. However, it is not true. If it's hard for you to communicate with your parents, don't worry about it. Here are some advice for you to bridge the generation gap.
Don't argue with your parents. Don't get to your parents when you are angry. Your parents possibly won't consider your ideas if you are shouting at them. And you can't express yourself well if you are angry.
Perhaps you and your parents disagree on something. You can keep your disagreement and try your best to accept each other. Michael's mother didn't agree with him about buying a motorcycle. They argued over it. But they finally came to a compromise. Michael bought the motorcycle, but only drove it on certain days.
Of course, your parents might refuse to compromise on something. In these situations, it is especially important to show love and respect for them.
Talk about your values (价值观). The values of your parents are probably different from those of your own. Understanding your values might help them see your purposes in life.
A good relationship with your parents can make you a better and happier person. It is worth having a try.
A. Go to some place to cool off.
B. Try to reach a compromise (和解).
C. Tell your parents what you care about, and why.
D. Make sure you understand why you are unhappy.
E. Showing respect will keep your relationship strong.
F. Communication is a problem for parents and children of all ages.
G. If you don't think you can speak to them at the moment, try writing a letter.
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