Some people make you feel comfortable when they are around. You spend an hour with them and feel as if you have known them half your life. These people have something in commonIf you follow them, they will help you put people at their ease, and make friends with them quickly.
Ask questions. Good talkers always ask questions.One famous businesswoman says, "At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It's a common question, but it will get things going." From there you can move on to other matters — sometimes to real persona questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.
Once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answer. Your question should have a point and can help to tell what sort of person you are talking to. And to find out, you should have to listen carefully.
Real listening at least means some things. If someone sticks to one topic, you can take it as a fact that he is really interested in it.If the voice sounds dull, then it's time for you to change the subject.
Finally, good talkers know well how to deal with the occasion of parting. If you're saying goodbye, you may give him a firm handshake and say, "I've really enjoyed meeting you."Let them know how you feel, and they may walk away feeling as if they've known you half their life.
A. Listen attentively.
B. Listen with a smile.
C. It's polite to say something nice when parting
D. Here are several skills that good talkers have.
E. Real listening involves words as well as tones of voice.
F. If you want to see that person again, don't keep it a secret
G. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question.
