The teen years are not easy for parents and teens. Teens try to set themselves apart their parents, and one way may be to dress in a way that parents may disagree on. Are the clothes (absolute) different from what you expect? Sometimes teens think (amaze) clothes and hairstyles may be a way to try out a new identity, or a way to fit in. Peer (同龄人) pressure istypical issue which shows itself in different ways, some dangerous and some annoying. The teen years are a time of (reflect) and independence. Teens may quarrel with parents as behavior issues come up. Talking to your teens about these issues is a way of communicating your concern as well your understanding.
Parents have to express their personal expectations and moral (value), and draw the line at risky behavior. Teens are under lots of pressure,but parents need to give them some space and allow them (express) themselves in ways that will not hurt them. As parents, you can't expect your teens to be the same as you once (be). It's important to talk with your teens about the dangers and results of engaging in risky behavior, but when it (come) to clothes and hair, it may not be worth the kind of argument. Set rules for what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior together with your teens, and be clear on the non-negotiable issues.