If you think you are too shy and want to be a little outgoing, try the following. You can make it.
There's no need to hide (隐藏) it. When they get to know you are a shy kid, they'll understand you deeply(深入). This also helps you feel more comfortable when you talk with others.
People think you are friendly and easy to talk to. Remember that other people also have feelings and most people will stay away from an angry-looking face.
If you find it hard to do, say something nice to people around you. Think about how great you feel when someone says something nice to you. Doesn't it make you want to keep talking to these people?
Think more about ways to enjoy the party or the game. Don't waste time worrying about your looks.
Each time after you say "hi, or smile at someone for the first time, say to yourself. You did it!" Or it could be something bigger, like buying yourself an ice cream.
Keep trying and one day you won't be "shy" any more when you talk to others.
A. Turn your attention (注意力) to somewhere else.
B. Reward (奖励) yourself.
C. Try to smile more.
D. Tell people you are shy.
E. Talk to others first.
