It is very important for kids to be courageous. A brave child is more likely to withstand negative peer pressure, say no to temptations (诱惑) and fight the good fight. It boosts kids' resilience (适应力), confidence and willpower as their as well as their learning, performance and school engagement. Here are several ways to develop kids' courage:
Set a model of courage. Kids who watch their parents stick their necks out to do the right thing are more likely to do the same. Then express how good it feels when you conquer your fear instead of taking a shortcut. Your kids will learn how to take on the tough challenge they face by witnessing how you tackle your fears.
Research finds that kids are more likely to be courageous if they believe that their parents encourage them to support those in need. Discuss bravery with your kids: Tell them "Courage is making the choice to do what you know is right even if you are afraid."
Ask your kids to share their acts of bravery. Learning to be brave takes practice, so encourage your children to do something courageous every day.A mom I talked to had her kids share their brave deeds at dinner time.
Teach your kids how to reduce their fears. If not kept under control, fear can be powerful. You might encourage positive self-talk, such as saying, "I can handle this" or "I have courage to do this." Or teach your child to take slow, deep breaths to find courage.
A. Talk about values and courage.
B. Courage has other surprising benefits.
C. The good news is that courage can be taught.
D. Teach your children simple strategies to be brave.
E. Let your children see you step out of your comfort zone.
F. In today's uncertain world, kids will need courage and confidence.
G. Then take time to focus on their courageous breakthroughs.
