All families are different, and all families have their own lifestyles. But with the right amount of work and determination (决心), you can make your family life the best by developing your relationships and learning more about yourself and your relatives, so why not?
Understand your family well. If you don't understand your family, there can be many misunderstandings (误解) and fights. Be with them whenever you can and get to know them better. A lot of families now don't get to know each other too well because they're too busy. Plan some family time, like a movie, or a family game, or even as little as eating dinner together.
Respect your family. Your children and your wife/husband are now yours but remember at the end of the day they are also humans. They also have opinions or suggestions. Sometimes they can be bad or good. Never be angry with someone's opinion. They have their opinions, and no one is perfect.
Give time to every person. No one wants to be ignored just for some meeting or work. Give time to each so you can understand every person properly and this can help you get along well with each other.
Help each other. When you see your family members need help, help them. Do little things such as holding the door for them, or helping someone with housework.