Everyone wants actually the same thing in life and that is to exist and flourish(辉煌). Living a long and fruitful life is a difficult thing to do when a person can't coexist with other people in harmony. Living in harmony not only helps others but it helps the person living the harmonious life. Avoid controversial topics with people. There are certain topics like religion and politics that can make another person embarrassed immediately. This is especially important if you are
very communicative.
Focus on the common things you have with other people rather than the differences. But too many times a person can focus on what other people do not like or believe, and this can give them a negative opinion of others without even trying to find some common ground on which they do agree.
Do not drift off or try to think of what you are going to say in response. You will be surprised how much people appreciate someone who is really listening without judging or arguing.
Let them understand that there are certain conversation topics and actions that you do not tolerate. It is up to you to set them and make people know and follow them. However, do not be argumentative about setting them.
Some people just cannot get along no matter what measure you take to make a relationship work.
So just stay out of these people's way and let them live their own lives apart from you.
A. Listen to other people when they talk to you.
B. Then, how do you live happily with others?
C. Making boundaries is not selfish, so voice your limits.
D. Establish proper boundaries with people in your life.
E. Most people can find at least a few topics on which they agree.
F. Decide how much you are willing to listen to other people.
G. It is best to talk about movies or anything that does not lead to a conflict.
