As you are growing and changing, you have more responsibilities (责任) and also more freedom to spend time with other people. While you may feel ready to make your own decisions about where and when to go, your parents will control you. So you may find you are arguing with your parents more than before. The reason is that they care about you and want to protect you from danger. Here are some advice on how to avoid (避免) arguments with your parents:
[1] Discuss the rules before you do the things. This way you will be able to tell what they will say before you make plans. Your parents can also' tell you the reason about the rule. Ask them to let you explain how the rules make you feel and what you think are right rules. Your parents may listen to your ideas and use them when making rules that you all agree on.
[2] Try to keep cool when your parents say no to something. You will show your parents that you can talk instead of shout.
[3] Spend time with your family. Some teenagers argue with their parents more than they spend with their friends. Communicate with each other and make some special family time so that you can all enjoy the time at home. Think of activities that your whole family will enjoy together such as going on a hike, taking a bike ride, or going to the beach.