Do you blieve that you know what people are thinking from what they say?People can say one thing but mean something else. That's because what people do can give them away. You can learn a lot about people just by how they stand, or what they do with their hands or their hair. An expression on their face can give them away too. Remember that this is how people will learn about you to. People will judge (判断) you mostly by what you do with your body Then they will judge you by how you say ting.
So pay attention to your own actions and words and to those of others. You shouldn't make a judgment from just one action. Crossing the arms, for example, is supposed to show that someone does not agree with you. I could just mean, though, that somebody is cold.
Is it open or closed? A closed body is someone making themselves small, with their head down and arm lose to her body. This probably means they are shy or lacking confidence. Someone who stands or sits with their head up and arms wide is showing that they are confident.
. It is true that your eyes can carry a lot of meanings. When someone smiles at you, check whether they ore genuine (真诚的)Are they smiling with heir eyes as well as their mouth? If no, they may not really be pleased.
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A. If so, you may be wrong. B Sometimes a gesture can be misunderstood. C. An important giveaway is how a person holds their body. D. Look someone in the eye when you meet him for the first time. E. There is an express the eyes are the window of the soul". F. Your actual words carry only seven percent of how you are judged. |
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