I don't post recognizable pictures of my children on social media. I don't use their names. I don't put anything out there that will be really embarrassing for them in later life.
The reason for not posting pictures is that I feel a person's pictures should be his or her own. It's not good for me to push my kids out into the wilds of the Web before they're ready, and understand what it all means.
When the time comes, they're more than welcome to use social media. But for now, I'm happy to give them a degree of separation until they can make a choice for themselves.
This has meant extra efforts on our part when it comes to making sure that kids don't get accidentally caught up in the Internet, because the schools where they learn, like so many others up and down the country, post their pictures to social media.
However, my husband thought I was overanxious and asked me a question about its advantages. And having thought about it for while, I'm not 100 percent sure if there are any.
But I could list the disadvantages: the time it takes to manage an account, often by a teacher, meaning extra work; the unavoidable difficulties in safeguarding.
It's great to see the kids doing their things in schools but my worry is about the use of social media that doesn't give anything back to the kids, and in many ways, just turns them into another way to gain clicks. I want more than that for them.
D．She is worth praising.
