Loveyourparents
Even if you think that your parents are mean-spirited at times, loving your parents is a normal and fulfilling(满意的) part of life. You love them for the fact that they created you, and raised you. Here are some ways to love your parents.
A gentle "good morning" and "I love you" will warm a cold heart. Remember that they brought you into this world. Without your parents, you might sill wander at an unknown corner in an unknown world.
Respect them more and cherish(珍惜) these moments. You can use these moments to learn from them when you're off on your own. It's OK to get angry but angry actions don't help you or your parents. Act calmly, cool off, record your feelings, or talk to a friend.
Obey their requests. It will make your attitude better and earn you more respect from them. It may seem like you are going through a bad situation when you don't get what you want. However, you had better remember they keep a roof over your head when it's cold, raining, snowing, or too hot. Understand that parents also can make mistakes. Since you can forgive your friends, why not forgive your parents?
Keep company with them. Do things with your parents like watching TV, or go somewhere with them. Listen to their old stories and learn from them. You will find they are your teachers in this way or another.
Some people simply may not be able to love their parents. Look for help if you are being abused violently. Parents do not have a right to harm you.
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A. There can be realistic reasons for this, family violence for example. B. Anyway, spend as much time with them as you can. C. Tell them you love them every morning. D. Forgiveness is the key. E. Parents will turn express their love to you. F. After this, share your feelings with your parents. G. Please remember parents are as important as friends. |
