Family conflict affects everyone. , you may want to mediate(调解) to make everyone's life easier. It's worth it to try to smooth things over.
●. It can be difficult to look at family situations objectively, so before trying to mediate disagreements, make sure you look at all sides of the argument. While you shouldn't take sides when trying to mediate, you don't want anymore to think you are overlooking their point of view. Take some time to think about why everyone feels wronged or hurt in a situation.
●Encourage everyone to control their feelings. It's not uncommon for tensions to run high when discussing family conflict. . Try to control the emotional outbursts as much as you can. While everyone has a right to their personal feelings, make it clear these feelings must be expressed in an appropriate, productive way.
●Try hard for forgiveness. Even if you were not directly involved in the argument, you are probably affected by the atmosphere in some way. Choose forgiveness. Remember, you can't control someone else's actions but you can control your own response. You can also encourage other family members to forgive. .
●Work on fixing the relationships. , you can offer suggestions how family members could better treat one another in the future. Think about what has been said during mediation. Look for areas where change is needed. You should also agree to work actively on letting go of the conflict. For example, "for the next couple of months, let's agree not to bring this up."
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A .Think about everyone's view B .Have a healthy discussion C. There may be times when people get sensitive and angry D. If there's an ongoing argument between family members E. Although it's not your job to offer exact causes of action(行动方案) F. If a family member reacts very violently to an unimportant affair G. However, remember you cannot force someone to feel a particular way |
