One of my clients (客户) recently revealed that his wife was of the opinion that he shouldn't hire a coach to help him create a more1life; he should be able to do it by himself.
Has anyone ever said something 2 to you? Or perhaps you have said it to yourself? When I talk to people about making changes in their life, they would 3 say something like "but shouldn't I do this 4 ?
However, the opposite is 5. The most successful people get as much help as they need to 6 their goal. Take Ellen MacArthur for example, the fastest female and youngest sailor to race around the world solo, non-stop. While she 7around the world by herself, she also had advisors, trainers, sponsors, and a support team to help her. She once said, "It's always been about a 8 , so I have to thank my partners, friends, and supporters.9 them, I would be nowhere."
Many people 10 that "if you have help to achieve something then it 11 that achievement". It is a common 12 , however, and one that I would 13 you to stay away from. So next time you hear a phrase like "you should do it on your own", either from someone else or in your head, 14 yourself immediately that it is not helpful and focus on 15 the help you need to get to where you want to go.
