When Joy Warren's husband passed away at the age of 50, her confidence took a knock. Meeting new people and joining in again socially was a fearful task. Fortunately, just doors away were friendly neighbors Janet and Michael Porter who knocked on her door and invited her to join them at a local friendship group event organization.
And it all started from there, explained Joy, "I've never been the type to sit still, so despite the fact I was still in deep sorrow for Graham, I knew I had to get out and socialize again, but it was difficult to know where to start. That knock on the door was the encouragement I needed."
From that first neighborly nudge, Janet and Michael have been there for Joy, inviting her along to take part in regular social events in the organization. She continued: "They made sure I was never alone for too long, and if I really needed them, a gentle reminder would be given that they were always there. I joined them at all sorts of group meetings and events. Eventually, I signed up to the organization as a result of the wonderful new friends."
Michael, who is also the secretary for the local branch, said, "We understood that Joy needed some time and space after losing Graham, but we made sure we were always there for her when she felt ready to join in. The time it takes to feel ready to step out and meet people again is a very personal thing. It can be a matter of weeks for some, or possibly years for others.
From coffee mornings and afternoon teas, to lunch clubs and guest talks, the local branches hold regular events and activities throughout the year. Joy can find out what events are running near to her by using the Event Finder, and enjoyed herself with the new friends.
