Dreaming big doesn't mean we suddenly want to be a millionaire or become famous. That's because "bigger" is a relative term. If we currently have no dreams, dreaming bigger might just mean a small goal that we want to reach. But even that is not always easy. So how do you start dreaming bigger?
Cultivate Confidence. To achieve big things, you have to believe that you can. Therefore, the first thing we need to dream big is to get a confidence boost. Try to remember a time when you succeeded in doing something you set your mind to.
Face Fear of Failure. The fear of doing something big can be intense. What if we fail? What then? If this sounds like you, it may be helpful to develop the belief that growth and learning are more important than success or other people's opinions. That way we can better enjoy the pursuit, even if it ultimately does result in failure.
Face Fear of Success. Success can mean different things to different people. For example, success might mean feeling like the odd one out in your family or friend group. Or, it could lead to jealousy from others. But taking a closer outlook at these fears and thinking about how you might deal with them can help you move through them.
Use Your Imagination. Maybe you imagine yourself owning your own business, having a big family, or traveling all over the world. Then does living this life feel good or authentic? Use this exercise to better understand which big dreams are a good fit for you.
Enjoy the Process. Sometimes we end up spending so much time focusing on big dreams that we forget to enjoy the process. Indeed, big dreams can help us imagine a life or a future we've never known. If we don't enjoy the process, it's going to be tough to get there.
A. But big dreams take time.
B. We are taking control of our lives.
C. Striving towards dreams can decrease well-being.
D. It might mean more responsibility than you really want.
E. Use your experiences as inspiration and self-motivation.
F. Start by visualizing a variety of different possible exciting outcomes.
G. It can help you shift your focus to the journey instead of the end goal
