We're thrown into a social situation, and everyone has his worries. Have you ever met any problems at school?Have you ever got in trouble with your teacher? Are you popular in your class?
What can you do if you don't feel popular?
Try to take part in activities. Call your friends. Plan to do something. The worst feeling comes from staying at home alone because it makes you feel even more lonely.
Try to make new friends. Choose friends carefully. And remember, making good friends takes time. Choosing a popular person to be your friend is okay, if they are nice.
Be yourself. If you want to become friends with someone who's popular, don't make yourself into someone you are not just to impress(使留下深刻印象) that person.
Be nice. Be friendly. Be outgoing. But don't overdo it! Talk to trusted friends if you are feeling really bad. Or you might want to write it down in a diary.
Do something special for yourself. You could take pictures of your friends, or collect their school pictures, and make a collage(拼贴画)to hang on your wall. This will remind you, when you are feeling unpopular, that you really do have friends.
Think up your own ideas. These suggestions(建议)might not work for everyone.
