Family rules help keep the family in order. They show the behaviors that parents expect from their children. So how can we create family rules?
Step 1:Make the family rules.
Know what family rules need to be made. Give children a chance to learn how family rules work by starting with one rule before others are added. Family rules should fit children's ages and they can also change according to children's situations. Don't make vague (模糊的) rules, such as" be good". "Be good" includes many different things and may be hard to understand.
Step 2:Explain the rules.
Make sure children know and understand the rules. What's more, children need to be reminded of the rules from time to time. Parents can also make some simple pictures or notices to put everywhere at home.
Step 3:Follow the rules.
All family members should follow the family rules. Young children learn from their parents, just like people often say that parents are the first teachers of their children. For example, if parents are respectful (尊重人的) and listen to others patiently, their children will follow them.
Step 4:Know the consequences (后果) for not following the rules.
All members should know the results of breaking the rules. When someone breaks the rules, all members should give quick response (回应) and the punishment should also be done at once.