We spend most of our time with friends we like.Well, what kind of people are popular with others, then? By being with some people just once, you start to like them. If you wonder why they attract(吸引)people and want to be a person like them, you should learn how to have the traits (特点) that they have.
Firstly, everybody wants to be happy, and nobody wants to spend their time with an unhappy person.Well, you see,there is what you call mood linkage. If you are with a happy person,you are more probably to be happy, too. So if you are a happy person,many people will want to spend their time with you.
Next, everybody needs someone to give encouragement(鼓励) to them because sometimes in our lives we meet failure (失败),sadness,problems and other bad things. So if you always choose to cheer others up with encouraging words or actions, they would like to spend time with you.
Lastly, you are not a friend if you don't give a hand to your friends when they need help. You should always be helpful to them, because when you need help, they will be there for you, too.
It feels good if people want to be your friends because of your character.So if you want to attract people, you should learn to have these traits.