Perhaps you've stopped doing what you want because you're afraid of what others think of you. You feel that you must do what they expect and that you must meet their expectations, otherwise you'll lose their approval. If this is the case, it's time to start working on your self-esteem (自尊). .
Think about yourself, about what you really like and are interested in. You must lead your life independently. You must do what you want without being affected by what others think. , because you've always done everything to gain the approval of others. You need to get out of that zone, move to new places, and explore your full potential.
By surrounding yourself with people who think like you, you'll realize that you don't feel judged. Then, you'll start doing what you really want. Your new friends will integrate into your life and you'll also keep your genuine friends. On the other hand, those who are always ready to see the negative and question what you' re trying to do will gradually fade away.
To overcome your fear of what others think and of their non-approval, you should start talking about your plans. . By talking to them, you'll be able to organize your plans and ideas. You'll feel confident in yourself and you'll be able to go on your new path without any fear.
. You'll find barriers along your way. However, you must trust in yourself and seek the necessary strength to move forward. People in your environment often don't understand what you do no matter how much you explain it, so ignore them.
A. However, you might feel afraid to do it B. There is no need to think about what you want C. You don't have to change your circle of friends D. Then, you'll be able to do what you want freely E. Your life belongs to you, as well as your actions F. It's unavoidable that not everything will be plain sailing G. For instance, you could share your intention with your friends |
