While there are numerous tools to help you determine your strengths，try starting with these questions. Be as honest，clear，and objective as possible.
What are your top three qualities or strengths? . To make it easy，send an email to 20 of your closest friends and family members. Tell them you need their help in identifying your three top qualities or strengths. You'll quickly start receiving responses. Start a list from the answers you receive. . Take the three most common answers and use them as your guide.
What do you do every day? Most people tend to spend time on the things they like to do rather than the things they don't like. . If you find yourself easily making time to read to your kids but avoid making dinner，this behavior could be telling you something. People move toward things they're naturally good at doing.
?What people think you do and what they say about you are two different things. For example，they may think you're cleaning all day long but still think you're a terrible housekeeper. So you need to question people about it and tell them it's okay to tell the truth because this is about your personal development.
What is one mistake you keep repeating? Albert Einstein is known to have described insanity （精神错乱） as doing the same thing over and over but expecting different results. Are you caught in the insanity trap? For me，it was making bread. For years I tried to get my dough （面团） to rise into a nice cottony loaf. . I had advice from friends，watched videos online and tried different recipes all to no avail. I've accepted that I can't make bread and it's okay.
A. Every time I created a hard rock B. The first step is to ask for advice C. What do you like to talk about D. What do other people say about you E. You'll find a lot of qualities are repeated F. The truth is we don't have to be good at everything G. It's often the struggle between the two that causes problems，not the activities |
