How to become a good communicator
Being a good communicator is an important life skill. It can help you make friends, do well in school, and even get better jobs when you're older. Sometimes, you may find it a struggle to communicate effectively with people around you.
Listen to others.
Listening is a trait that is often forgotten about in modern society. In the process of communication, try to avoid responding to a text, opening an email, or thinking about your next meal. Show them you're listening and interested by commenting on the story or asking questions.
Speak sincerely.
No one likes to be deceived. Tell people the truth. If you can't commit to something, it's better to be honest about it than to have to tell them last minute that you can't make it. When people ask for your opinion, you should be honest. For instance, if you don't like your friend's shirt and they ask you about it, respond with, "I really like you in blue instead," rather than, "I hate it, it's ugly."
How you say things is arguably more important than what you say. If you try to give someone a genuine compliment（赞美）, but they think you say it with an ironic undertone, your compliment won't mean a thing. Be aware of the way you speak. If you notice that people often take things you say the wrong way, there is a good chance you can change how you speak. Ask your friends to make you aware of the way you're coming across.
Help others communicate.
Get a bunch of people together for a fun get-together. It can be as simple as a gathering at the park, or as fancy as an elegant dinner party.
A. Know "how" vs "what".
B. Be aware of what you say.
C. You should pay attention to what others are saying.
D. This can be a good chance for you to communicate with others.
E. Do remember there is a difference between honest and rude opinions.
F. Either way, it shows them that you care and want to spread friendship.
G. However, with practice and patience, you can become a great communicator.
