Parents are the most important people in our lives. However, many of us don't get along well with our parents. It's very common that we argue a lot with our parents. Parents always want the best for us, but sometimes they don't know how to express themselves. If you want to improve your relationship with your parents, here are some ways to help you.
Be respectful. Even if you don't agree with their parenting styles, values or rules, be polite to your parents. In this way, you can avoid unnecessary arguments with your parents. Try using polite language such as "Sorry"or "Would you mind if.…? " and speaking modestly(谦虚地) such as " It may be…"And let them finish speaking before you take your turn.
Don't let things get worse. If you have an argument with your parents, do everything you can to repair the relationship sooner rather than later. This will show that you care about the relationship. It will also mean you will be fighting for less time in total.
Be positive. Stay positive and warm. Smile at your parents. Let them know that you are happy to see them and that you care about their happiness with your body language. There is no doubt that your parents may be influenced by your positive feelings. This will help them be in a good mood(心情) that will develop a positive relationship change.
Be open and honest. Talk to your parents about things that make you feel uncomfortable. This will be helpful to build trust with your parents, which will improve your relationship with them. Have regular(有规律的) communication so your parents can get a better understanding of your life, what makes you upset, and what makes you happy. If you listen to your parents, they will be more likely to listen to you, opening the door for you to try discussing improving the relationship.
lf you follow the advice above, I think that you can have a good relationship with your parents. I think that the parents actually want to improve their relationship with their children. They also hope that their children can understand their love.
