"Be yourself. " You may often hear people say this to you, but you' re not really sure what it means. In fact, being yourself means being true to yourself. There's no need for you to try to be someone else and you shouldn't worry about what others think of you. Then, what can you do to be yourself?
Get to know yourself.To be yourself, though, you have to learn about yourself. You have to learn who you are, what matters to you and what you believe (and don't believe) in.
Please(使……高兴) yourself.Doing things to please others is nice, but it shouldn't be your first priority(首要任务). If you always want others pleased, you will forget about yourself and what you really want. So, if you find yourself doing this, ask yourself why. Don't always go along with the crowd(大众), but stop to ask yourself if this is right for you.
Learn to love yourself.This is important because nobody can love you as much as you can love yourself. Loving yourself means loving everything in you, your voice, your looks and even your mistakes. Remember, you don't have to be the same as anyone else.