I received a phone call from my friend the night before yesterday. We talked for more than 40 1 . But I spent 30 minutes listening to her. Her 2 were full of complaints (抱怨) about the work, the society and other things. Later I stopped her and 3 her, "Firstly, what are you trying to tell me after repeating all that? Secondly, how do you feel after 4 these complaints. I think 5 can be changed unless you make up your mind to change it. " In the following communication, we talked much better. We talked about the progress she had made on her6 , and I also gave her some advice on her work.
We all have problems with our work, our friends, our families, or within ourselves. We should do something to 7 the problem instead of complaining all the time. What is the use of complaining? No use at all. The goal of changing the world is too 8 . We cannot achieve that big goal in one go. Try to start with yourself, face to life actively and change your world. Changing your world is an important part of changing the world. And remember to be9 to others. Be thankful, so you don't complain. Then everything will change, 10 get better and better!
Change yourself, start by stopping complaining, and the world will really start to change.
