You cannot choose your child's friends for him, but you can help him learn to choose friends wisely. Here are a few ways to help your child make friends.
Build your child's selfconfidence.
When he succeeds or has made a great choice, tell him you're proud of him. Your middle school student is going through many changes and may feel like he isn't “good enough”. Building his selfconfidence will help him feel more confident and will make it easier for him to form healthy friendships.
Give him your full attention when he talks, and really listen to what he has to say.
Discuss the qualities in a friend with your child.
Discuss with your child the qualities that matter most, such as being reliable and kind, and making good choices when it comes to avoiding alcohol and tobacco.
Get to know your child's friends.
It's more important to talk with them and find out what they like to do. Allow your child to invite his friends over and get to know them better.
Afterschool clubs and sports programs are good places for meeting new people. Be open to exploring different activities with your child to find something that he enjoys.
A. Friends are very important for us.
B. Introduce your child to new groups of people.
C. Talk with your child every day and listen to his concerns.
D. Try not to judge your child's friends based on how they dress.
E. When he does not succeed, help him feel better and keep trying.
F. You can teach him ways to find friends who will have a positive influence on him.
G. There are many types of friends and we should be careful when making our choices.
