Many couples are quite puzzled about this question.How can lovers be devoted to each other for long? Actually, they just complain about their marriage to their partners all the time,not(know) how to deal with the marriage crisis.
“Before we were(marry),my husband was a caring man,“a wife once told me.“It seemed that he would love me till the end of the world.Since we got married,he(become) a lazy bone.He watches ball games more than he watches me.He has changed so much that I can(hard) bear him.”
“Very funny,”answered the husband.“But have you looked at yourself lately?Several years ago,you were very beautiful.Now you wear that old dress.If I've changed fromenergetic man to a lazy one,then you've changed yourself from a(beauty) lady to an ugly one.”This hurtful but childish(argue) shows how couples, instead of looking for love,may look for all the(fault) that his/her partner has in their daily life.
Honestly speaking,how we see our partners often depends morehow we are than how they are.It is a way of seeing.Husbands and wives are not audienceparticipant observers in each other's life.Remember that the law of lasting love is to look at your lover with love.
