When our three kids were young, we had days that went on for life times. As I watched my husband crag leave every morning, I felt 1 to have so much time alone with my babies. When crag 2 each evening, he would smile and ask, "So! How was your day?"
This question showed the 3 between his experience of a "day" and mine. How was my day? I 4 Craig as the kids screamed loudly around. Then I looked down at my dirty T-shirt and the toys littering the floor.
I wanted to say, "Today has been a 5 There were moments when I was so fed up with the mess that I thought I might 6 was both lonely and 7 to be alone." But busy with so much housework, I was too tired to 8 So I just said, "Fine." But I felt sad because 9 is about being seen and known.
So we decided to 10 help. We learned from the counselor (咨询师) that love is 11 and we shouldn't ask the same empty questions like: "How was your day?" 12 , we can ask questions like: When did you feel loved or lonely today? A 13 question is a key that will unlock a room inside the person you love.
Questions are like gifts. It's the 14 behind them that the receiver feels. The more 15 you give to your questions, the more beautiful the answers become.
