Young people are often unhappy when they are with their parents. They1that their parents don't understand them. They often think their parents are too strict2 them, and they are never given a free hand. Parents often find it is 3to win their children's trust and they seem to forget how they themselves felt when they were young.
For example, young people like to do things without much thinking. It's one of their ways to4that they grow up and they can do with any difficult things. Older people worry more easily. Most of them plan things ahead and don't like their plans to be changed. When you want your parents to let you do something, you will have better success5you ask them before you really start doing it.
Young people often make their parents angry by the clothes they want, the music they enjoy and6. But they don't mean to cause(引起)any trouble. They just feel that in this way they can be cut off from the old people's world and they want to make a new culture of their own. And if their parents7their music or clothes or their manner of speech, the young people feel very unhappy. In fact, sometimes they don't want their parents to say "Yes" to what they do. They want to stay at home8and do what they like.
If you plan to control your life, you'd better9your parents over and try to get them to understand you. If your parents see that you have high sense of responsibility (责任感), they will certainly give you the right(权利)to do10you want to do.