In a restaurant, a big bug (虫子) suddenly flew out of nowhere and landed on a woman. She started shouting out of fear. With a shocked face, she started jumping around with both her hands shaking, trying to scare away the bug. Her reaction (反应) was so strong that it made everyone in her group nervous. She finally got the bug off her, but then it landed on another woman in the group. Now it was her turn to continue the reaction.
A waiter rushed to their table. The second woman managed to get the bug onto the waiter. The waiter stood quietly and looked at the bug on his shirt.
While remaining calm, he carefully picked up the bug with his fingers and then threw it out of a window. People around him were surprised.
Watching the event go on, I started wondering: Was the bug the reason for their behaviors? If so, then why was the waiter not troubled? He solved the problem perfectly without any mess.
In fact, it was not the bug, but the ability of those people to deal with the trouble caused by the bug that influenced the women.
Then I realized that it was not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that influenced me, but my ability to deal with the trouble caused by their shouting that influenced me. It's not the traffic jams on the road that troubles me, but the lack of my ability to deal with the mess caused by the traffic jams that troubles me.
It is not the problem, but my reaction to the problem that creates trouble in my life.
①The waiter helped solve the problem.
②The big bug landed on a woman.
③The woman tried to get off the bug.
④The writer realized what created trouble.