Some years ago, I was invited to give a keynote speech at a high-level meeting. It was a great chance for me. I was1 when I heard the news. 2 , since I gave a keynote speech for the first time, I3 I wouldn't perform well as expected.
When I sat in the back waiting for my4 , I felt nervous about how people would see me. I fixed my mind totally on "me". I felt very uncomfortable. While looking through websites online, I read an interview with a famous psychologist5 . He spoke about the pleasure of wishing others well and a wave of6 swept over me. I recognized that the kindest thing I could do for myself was to7 concentrating totally on "me" and instead try to be8 to others. So I stayed focused on what could be useful to other people rather than how I was 9 . Surprisingly, my speech received great10 . I understand that to get admiration, stop 11 it, to take care of yourself, you need to take care of others first. This12 works for many people. It's also13 that you need to be kind to yourself because if your sense of being happy 14 , you're more likely to be patient, supportive, forgiving, and loving.
Nowadays, it seems as if people are15 in a vast web since each person doesn't live alone. No matter how good or bad it is, what you do to others certainly comes back to yourself.
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