When you're trying to make friends, you'll probably meet someone who just doesn't like you, though you've never done anything personally to him/her. Here's some advice.
Gossip（流言蜚语）can make meeting new people difficult, especially when people hear something bad about you. It can prevent someone from getting to know you at all. When you're in a situation like this, it feels awful. Rather than working hard to try to win them over, however, just be yourself. In time, they will see that the gossip about you is wrong. Don't worry about it and move on by making friends with the people who deserve to have you in their life.
You'd think that your friend's friends would also become your friends. But it doesn't work that way. Sometimes people are happy with the friendships they have, and they aren't interested in adding any more. If someone chooses not to be friends with you just because you're new to the group, it's fine.
An even more difficult situation is when someone has actually met you and just doesn't like you. Every joke you make is taken the wrong way. As much as it hurts, accept that not everyone is going to be your friend. Don't take it personally. These things could happen to everyone. There are just some people you're not going to click with.
If someone doesn't want to be your friend, that's okay. Don't get mad at them because it's their choice. Instead, give your time and attention to the people that are interested in hanging out with you.
A. Every time you try to do something nice, they find fault.
B. There's nothing wrong about you or them.
C. The things you do are completely accepted by them.
D. In friendship, it's important to focus on the positives with people.
E. Or, they may choose to believe it.
F. Well, what should you do?
