①When you' re trying to make friends, you' ll probably meet someone who just doesn' t like you, though you' ve never done anything to him or her. Well, what should you do? Here' s some advice.
②Gossip (流言蜚语) can make meeting new people difficult, especially(尤其) when people hear something bad about you. It can prevent someone from getting to know you at all. When you' re in a situation(情况) like this, it feels bad. Instead of trying to win them over(说服), however, just be yourself. As time goes by, they will see that the gossip about you is wrong. Or they may choose to believe it. Don' t worry about it and move on by being friendly to the kind people.
③You' d think that your friend' s friends would also become your friends. But it doesn' t work that way. Sometimes people are happy with the friendships they have, and they aren' t interested in adding any more. If someone chooses not to be friends with you just because you' re new to the group, it' s fine. There' s nothing wrong with you or them.
④An even more difficult situation is when someone has met you and just doesn' t like you. Every joke you make is taken the wrong way. Every time you try to do something nice, they find fault (找茬儿). As much as it hurts, accept that not everyone is going to be your friend. Don' t take it personally. These things could happen to everyone. There are just some people you won' t like.
⑤In a word,if someone doesn' t want to be your friend, that' s okay. Don' t get angry with them because it' s their choice(选择). Instead, give your time and attention to the people that are interested in being with you.