Do you think your parents just don't understand you?You ask for something,and they always say no to you. Teenagers often complain that their parents do not understand them. Many parents don't a their children to make their own decisions. It's true that parents sometimes still see you their little child,even though you're growing up. If you're looking to get more freedom,you need to build trust with them. Here are some suggestions.
Express(表达) Yourself
Instead of saying,"All my friends can do it,"tell them why you want to do something. Try to have open with your parents. Share your plans,what you hope to achieve, why it's important to you. Listen to their opinion as well. This shows respect(尊重) and responsibility(责任).
Respect Their Rules
You may think it's important to express ,but it's also important to respect your parents' rules. Understand that they make rules to help you be better,even if it doesn't always seem that way.
Be
Trust is a two﹣way street. Don't lie to your parents,because it really hurts. Lying will only break your relationship in the long run.
Show Thanks
Tell them you are moved when your parents do trust you or when they try to understand you. A simple"thank you"can go a long way.
Building a strong relationship with your parents takes time and effort from sides. By following these suggestions,you and your parents can create a good relationship.